What is my Job?

I remember right before we had Katelyn I thought this isn't going to be so hard Brad will help me. And of course he helps me, but during the day it was all me. Then when Alex came and all my help went back to Ohio, I was so mad at Brad for going into work every day and it seemed like he didn't care. This was the hardest time in my life as a mother the first 6 months with both of them by myself. And then it hit this is my "job" to take care of the kids and the house (as much as possible) during the day. When Brad gets home he pitches in right until bed time. But, I do all of the house chores except ones that he is really better at or are best done on the weekend ie. the garage organizing, and mold removal in the shower. Really once I realized that this is my job right now and looked at it as something to excel in then I started to do better doing the day, definitely I have my bad days but mostly I'm doing my job as best as I can.
Emily